Showing posts with label #SurvivalLoss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #SurvivalLoss. Show all posts

Monday, January 6, 2025

Do You Know How to Survive by Laughing in the Face of Trauma?

On Aug. 23, 1987, 26-year-old Selonia Reed was found dead in the parking lot of a

gas station in Hammond, Louisiana. Nearly forty years after her death, on Jan. 30, 2023,

her husband Reginald Reed was sentenced to life in prison for her murder.


But that’s far from the entire story.



In this interview, Reggie Reed shares his tragic and unbelievable story that promises to keep you on the edge of your seat.


The events surrounding the unsolved murder of his mother and the subsequent indictment and trial of his father are heart-wrenching. He faced difficult situations several times and felt like there was no solution or way out. Personal struggles, failures, and challenging circumstances caused him to feel overwhelmed and powerless.


Reggie Reed

Reginald L. Reed Jr. is an author and an accomplished professional in the pharmaceutical industry. He holds a master’s degree in business and global marketing.

Reggie will show you that feeling helpless or hopeless is a normal part of the human experience, and it’s okay to seek support and help during those times. Sharing feelings with someone you trust or seeking professional help can make a big difference in overcoming those emotions. You must realize that it is okay not to have all the answers and ask for help when needed. 

Do not miss this amazing true story.





Reggie Reed when his mom was murdered 


Selonia Reed

Reggie Reed

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As featured in Newsweek and A&E's Cold Case Files

Publishers Weekly Memoir and Autobiography Spotlight Read

A Goodreads "Great Reads About Mental Health" Top 50

"A Memoir that plays out more like a true crime story." — A Trauma Survivor Thriver’s Podcast

"My heart was pounding as I experienced what was happening in the courtroom. If you enjoy digging deeper into the fallout of true crime, consider picking up The Day My Mother Never Came Home. Reed has done a great job of sharing his deepest emotions." — Pick a Good Book

"More than a memoir. A life-changing masterpiece of one man’s ability to face multiple life traumas head on." — Reader Paula

Reed invites you into his journey of healing and the pursuit of justice.

With raw vulnerability, he delves into the depths of his trauma, offering glimpses into the psychological impact on his life while also offering a powerful message of hope and resilience. Reed’s story highlights the indomitable spirit that can arise from even the darkest of circumstances.

The Day My Mother Never Came Home is not simply a true crime tale; it is a testament to the power of the human spirit and the importance of shedding light on the truth. With each turn of the page, you will find yourself captivated by the narrative. Follow Reed’s journey as he grapples with raw emotions and questions the complexities of true justice. This book will leave an indelible mark on your heart and mind, compelling you to reflect on the fragility of life and the strength it takes to overcome tragedy.

If you seek a gripping story that will remain with you long after you have finished reading, 
The Day My Mother Never Came Home is a must-read. Join Reed on this transformative journey as he reclaims his voice and sheds light on the darkest corners of his life.

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Friday, January 21, 2022

How Do You Cope with Shock, Debilitating Loss, or Fear?

How do you cope with shock or fear? Do you have the inner strength when you feel like there is none left? Faith Wilcox was able to find moments that were good – even when her daughter was near the end of her life and as a mother, she was shredded apart by the grief of losing her daughter, her marriage, and life as she knew it.

Faith Wilcox

Faith Fuller Wilcox believes that self-expression through writing leads to healing. Her writing is reflective of a growing body of medical research about 'narrative identity,' which illuminates that how we make sense of what happens to us and the meaning we give to experiences beyond our control directly impacts our physical and psychological outcomes. 

Faith learned this firsthand when her 13-year-old daughter, Elizabeth, was diagnosed with rare bone cancer that took her life. 

Faith also leads a journal writing program at a pediatric hospital for patients and their families designed to allow participants the opportunity to express themselves, alleviate stress, celebrate victories, and honor their grief. 

In her interview, Faith shares how she went from a mother in despair to a mother who had hope for the future. Through sharing her story, especially to those who have suffered a great loss, she wants you to know that life can continue after grieving and even be good. We can learn to live with sadness and joy side-by-side.  



Coping with loss


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Hope Is a Bright Star is the story of a mother’s journey from shock and fear at her young daughter’s cancer diagnosis, to anguish and despair at her death just a year later and, finally, to peace and acceptance of her new life.

When 13-year-old Elizabeth is diagnosed with rare bone cancer, Faith is in awe of her courageous child, who faces her plight straight on and inspires all who meet her. Despite an army of medical professionals who provide innovative care for Elizabeth, she dies, and Faith and her surviving daughter, Olivia, are thrown into a maelstrom of grief. They find unexpected comfort in the arms of their family, friends, and community, but Faith faces another shock when she has her own cancer diagnosis while navigating the uncharted waters of a life she never expected. In time, Faith discovers moments and places of comfort and peace, and she slowly changes from a mother in despair to a woman with hope for the future. 

At turns heartbreaking and heartwarming, Hope Is a Bright Star reveals how abiding love can heal a family.


Hope Is a Bright Star made the ‘long list’ for the category Overcoming Adversity for the 2021 Chanticleer International Book Awards. 




Grief


Facing Into the Wind - A Mother's Healing After the Death of her Child is a collection of poems written for parents and families who are coping with the death of a child. The poems are written about Elizabeth, her thirteen-year-old child, who battles a rare form of bone cancer, and her mother, Faith,  who struggles to survive after her daughter’s death.

Drawing upon metaphors with the natural world,  Faith remembers the transcending wisdom imparted by her dying daughter, healing Faith’s brokenness and awakening her strength to reach out and comfort others who are suffering.  

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